Heading of to dads soon, for a few hours, meeting Chris and Izzy there :).
I can't wait till next weekend and have a week of no travelling..... I think we are going to work on the garage, and it has not been really done since we moved in... so a full weekend job :)
Back later :)
Had a nice time at Dads, we were three hours and he was falling asleep when we left. As we went he said to Chris well this will be the last time I see you, until I meet you up there - (pointing upwards), it made me cry....., he knows his time is ending....
Anyway it's setting me off agin so going for the day....
ReplyDeleteYou should enjoy the time with your father while you can...I cared for my mother and both my in-laws ....they all lived to middle 90's....I was with them everyday...for years....and I still miss them especially my beautiful mother, who I saw or spoke to everyday of my life......Peta
I do try but he is so frustrated right now, that he can't do much anymore, and the side effects of the cancer causes issues, he takes it out on my sister and I, I have offered to move in with him, but he's not ready, he said he would let me know when it is time... I also video chat to dad for about an hour each day... I did it with mum, well phone-calls then didn't have video chat then, and that just transferred to dad, have done that for well over 20 years... and prob 20 years with my mum before that, nearly everyday, even when we were overseas I made the time. He was very independent and accepting help is so hard for him..... Hospice are coming next week, so hoping that he will accept their help.
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