Yesterday Steph's partner crashed down a bank (speeding obviously), he is ok apart from bruising etc.... but the car is a write off apparently. He had just been to a job interview in Tauranga. There is a lot of history with him, like his family religious beliefs and because he doesn't follow it, the family have disowned him, he has had a rough upbringing, but he is a nice guy just with issues we are trying to help him with, and he is a great dad to the kiddos. Steph is not doing well either mentally, I wish mobile phones weren't invented, her life is her phone, not her kids and it is really starting to pee me off big time, its a fine line on what to do, she has counselling there is more stuff but I would be here for weeks typing it up, but hopefully you get the gist.... Isaac is such a good kid, she gave him time etc, but Eli is just a pain to her. I used to think her partner was the issue, but now I think she is more the issue in the family dynamics.... her best friend is not the best friend choice.
Anyway dressed and ready for my walk.... leaving in about 10 minutes....
Walk done...
I did enjoy it, it helped me to relieve some stress..... 2/5 walks done for the week...
Things hit the fan today..... I am beyond mentally exhausted....
I am signing of for the day....
Kids huh? It's hard and you do so much for your daughter and grandkids. I've had (still have) issues as well but you just have to be there for them and hope it works out.
ReplyDeleteYip very stressful.... and thats all I can hope for.
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